Going Cold Turkey



After hearing the allegations of Matthew Good being an abuser, I've decided to sever my emotional bond to the musician.

I created this blog to document my journey from diehard Matthew Good fan to disillusioned former fan. 

This is a place where I intend to work through these feelings and also provide some background on things that have come to light in 2021.


Human Rights over Art

It's been a while since I've written here [cue Staind ballad]. I guess I've just had other life stuff to focus on. I'm back here because...

For the Greater Good

Yesterday, @hayleymather dropped an Instagram Live at 6 PT/9 ET. If you haven't watched it yet, I suggest you do—she has since posted it...

Public Statement

A joint public statement has just been released.

The Things You Overlook

When fandom blinds you... You know that feeling when you first fall in love? Your pulse quickens, a sense of euphoria takes over. That's...

The Nail in the Coffin

If you're anything like me, your first reaction may have just been straight up confusion. (I mean my first reaction to this news.) Was...

Is Matthew Good an Abuser?

A look at the allegations that surfaced in February 2021 When I first saw these posts on social media, I was gutted. Here were the first...



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